Your Life is Not Your Own

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My wife has a simple lesson she likes to teach me. Whenever I am swamped by the wants and needs of three young children and wish, either with language or body language, to simply  have some time alone to do what I want she often tenderly reminds, “Your life is not your own.”

As applicable as this phrase is to a beleaguered parent, it is absolutely and eternally true. Paul explained to the Corinthians, “For ye are a bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s” (1 Cor 6:20; see also 1 Cor 7:23). In other words, we do not own the life that we live. As much as we love to claim independence and free agency, we do not live independent of the world around us or the God above us and our agency, although ours, was not free from a price and is not free from consequences (in fact, the term “free agency” is not mentioned anywhere in scriptures.)

Rather, our life belongs to Him who created and redeemed all life. Peter taught that our life was purchased, not with money, but “with the precious blood of Christ, as of a lamb without blemish and without spot.” Think of it, the whole motif of animal sacrifice in the Old Testament and the pinnacle event of Atonement in the New Testament should, at the very least, teach us that redemption and eternal life were not cheap gifts to give. Your breath, your body, your mind and heart, your soul, and your soul’s final home were purchased in the currency of perfect blood given by a perfect person.




This last summer we took our family to see an outdoor theater production of Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dream Coat. We all loved the play and were only mildly annoyed by our inability to get “Jacob! Jacob and Sons!” out of our heads. I’ve always loved how Joseph perseveres through trials and yet, through his faithfulness, rises to be a prince in a position to save his family.

However, as I read it this last time I saw a different, deeper story couched among all the details—a story of a brother, beloved and chosen by his father and yet hated and abused by those who should have been his friends, sold for 30 pieces of silver as a slave, imprisoned by a local governor, forgotten, only to rise as a prince with power to save his family who would come to him, bow before him, and reap the benefits of his struggles and perseverance. Joseph spoke for himself and also for someone who would follow that same pattern on a much grander scale, “God did send me before you to preserve life . . . and thou shalt dwell be near unto me . . . and there will I nourish thee” (Gen 45: 5, 10-11).

More than a thousand years later, Jesus Christ became “He that ascended up on high, as also he descended below all things, in that he comprehended all things, that he might be in all and through all things, the light of truth” (D&C 88:6). Just as Joseph could not have saved his family were it not for his trials, so too did Christ submit so that He could, through his travail, purchase us and everything that comes with us.



Thus, our life is not our own. Although it was given to us a gift and, as with any gift, we can use or abuse it as we choose we will never be able to shake the feeling that this life, this gift, means something more to God and should mean something more to us. 

Do you do anything differently because you already recognize this truth? If not, what would you do differently because of it?

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